1: Fear is our #1 motivator and blocker.
To defeat the fear that holds you back, a stronger Fear must be used. For example…Most people have a fear of being judged ( fear of rejection) . If you develop a fear of regretting a missed opportunity, that fear will motivate you to do things that will override the fear of being judged or rejection.
“Fear has nothing to fear but fear itself”
2: Our whole lives we have been conditioned of who we are and what we deserve by others telling us “you are”. We have the right and we must choose our own “I am” that sets our “thermostat”. This thermostat setting equates to what we get in life.
3: Confidence is a muscle, as with any muscle, it only grows and gets stronger by facing the resistance , not by avoiding it.
4: Understand each one of us is equipped with the most extensive “emotional wardrobe” that will always keep us protected during the most adverse times.
5: We tend to over plan, and under faith. Increase your faith and plan less.
6: Keep you “mental refrigerator” packed with victories that you have accomplished. This is to be used to “feed your mind” when facing self doubt.
7: We all have a gift that is designed to be shared . Find that gift inside of you, and share it like crazy.
8: Fears best friend is Rationalization. When we rationalize we are accepting the fear and making it less painful to face the truth. No one ever succeeds at anything using rationalization and avoidance.
9: When you give others the power of approval, you gave them the power to control your thermostat setting. They will always set it lower than you deserve.
10: You will always land on your feet!!!!